Question
A nine years old daughter sat on the lap of his father. For some reason, father got
aroused and got an erection but within few seconds he orgasmed and ejaculated.
During orgasm, he tightly hugged his daughter but did not do any thing else. There was no one else around and the daughter did not understand what exactly happened.
Daughter was wearing thin clothes and her father could feel the warmth of her body.
Is Hurmat Musaharah established?
Answer:
ﺑﺴﻢ اﷲ اﻟﺮﺣﻤﻦ اﻟﺮﺣﯿﻢ
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
If the father touches his daughter with lust (without a barrier or with such a thin barrier that the body heat is felt) and thereafter he ejaculates, then hurmat e musaharah would not be established.1 Nevertheless, if he touches her (without a barrier or with such a thin barrier that the body heat is felt) with lust, without ejaculating, then *hurmat e musaharah *would be established. Please refer to the following link for more details:
https://daruliftabirmingham.co.uk/does-the-father-in-law-have-to-marry-the-daughter-in-law-after-hurmat-musaaharah/
Only Allah knows best
Written by Maulana Mohammad Ahsan Osmani Checked and approved by Mufti Mohammed Tosir Miah Darul Ifta Birmingham
1 Hurmat e Musaharat: p. 75-76 (Maktaba Hijaz Deoband UP); Hurmat e Musaharat Ahkam Aur Ihtiyati Tadabeer: p. 47-48 (Idara Darul Dawah Wal Irshad)